11 Things Guys Do That Are Guaranteed To Push Strong Women Away

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Plenty of guys say they want a strong, independent woman, but when they land one of us, they have no clue how to keep us. Instead, many of them seem to be really good at driving us away. No matter how good their intentions happen to be, the truth is that some guys just don’t know how to deal with a woman who wants them but doesn’t need them. Here’s how they push us away:

1. TREATING US LIKE ARM CANDYWe like to get dressed up now and then and are happy to make them look good around their friends, but the minute they start to parade us around like ass-on-a-stick, we’re going to be looking for a way out. We are not any guy’s play thing, we’re not objects, and we won’t stand to be treated as such.

2. ACTING LIKE WE’RE FRAGILEJust because we’re strong doesn’t mean we have a heart of stone. They can still make us cry and plenty of things will piss us off. Whatever they do, they really shouldn’t handle us with kid gloves. They can be there for us without making us feel pathetic because that’s a sure way to push us away. Instead of making us feel like we’re being dramatic, we just want them to show us that they’re there for us no matter what.

3. NOT COMMUNICATING PROPERLY Part of what got us where we are today is being able to talk about it. We’re not just in touch with our thoughts and feelings but we know how to share them with others and how to listen. If guys think they can just slide by in a relationship with us without addressing issues as them come up, they need to think again. This is a two way street.

4. MAKING OUR PAST A PROBLEM Our previous experiences with guys and/or with life might not be pretty, but they’re the fundamental reasons we are who we are today. Treating where we’ve been with disregard, disrespect or judgement isn’t just rude, it’s downright unfair. They don’t get to enjoy the woman we’ve become while ignoring what got us there.relationships,relationships,relationships

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